Q&A How Do I Handle the Mixed Messages I'm Receiving from My Ex-fiancé? To watch the video please purchase a subscription to the Recovery Library. To watch the video, please purchase a subscription to the Recovery Library.Gain unlimited access to over 1,800 articles and expert Q&A videos.Already a Recovery Library member? Log in to listen to the full recording.Question: My ex fiancé keeps denying her infidelity. She says she never intended to hurt me so her cancelling our vacation plans to instead spend a long weekend with her affair partner who abruptly, and against her initial wishes, showed up at her door wasn’t really an affair against me. She becomes defensive every time I try to offer her forgiveness. No matter how safely and politely I try to explain my feelings, she becomes defensive, argumentative, and abruptly goes away, only to approach me days or a week later wanting to try reconcile and says I am too obsessed with the past and should just “get over it.”Sections: Leslie and John's callsRL_Category: For The Hurt SpouseQ&A Recovery LibraryRL_Media Type: Video