You mentioned in a previous post that if you once loved and respected your unfaithful spouse that those feelings can return but you must open your heart to it. We have done EMSO, individual and couples counseling, reading books talking, praying. We have recovered the friendship and done a lot of healing. I feel like I am still struggling to completely let go and have an open heart to truly love my husband again. He has changed so much and is completely in love with me (his words). He is safe and transparent. I couldn’t ask much more of him. I just feel like I am still protecting my heart with keeping some walls up. We are about 2 years post D-Day and this really concerns me. Any suggestions on letting go and opening my heart to my husband?