I’m so thankful that you were willing to do this interview with Samuel. Having the opportunity to listen to you farther down the road in your recovery work has been helpful for me working to forgive myself as well as my unfaithful husband. Neither side of the relationship has it “easy” in this craziness of recovery work. I hope that in the future you will continue to share with us your journey going forward.

I know this is supposed to be specific to female unfaithful but it’s the best summary I’ve heard of everything ANY unfaithful should do. And feel. Thank you! Planning to share with my husband.

I know this is supposed to be specific to female unfaithful but it’s the best summary I’ve heard of everything ANY unfaithful should do. And feel. Thank you! Planning to share with my husband.

This interview was incredibly helpful. The message at the end, had me choked up with tears. Thank you, for sharing your story; helping women feel they deserve the love their spouse is giving them during this difficult time.

Two weeks and 2 days after D day here. I’ve been gobbling up all the info I can from this website. I’m the betrayed spouse yet I can hear so much of myself in this account from the unfaithful spouse. Perhaps because I realize it could have been the other way around for us, so easily. I was not loving toward him in the last several years, I resented him, I did not see him for his truly fine qualities. I was unfaithful without there being an object for my unfaithfulness...perhaps I was my own affair partner as I loved my own company the best. We are both committed to make a new and better marriage. Trust has been broken, so that’s the hard part. But I forgive him and I am learning to forgive myself for my own lack of loving actions toward him. No excuse here for either of us.
We both want the past to remain in the past as we look to the future. Nothing good to look back on but plenty of hope moving forward.