Q&A Is It Wrong for Me to Give My Mate an Ultimatum?

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Question

My husband struggles with same-sex attraction. He committed all his numerous infidelities with men, not women. He says he still loves me and I have agreed to work on things but I have told him if he ever has sex with a man again we are done. Is it wrong to give him an ultimatum? I realize an addiction can have setbacks but I am not sure I could handle dealing with this again. I had no idea this was a struggle for him until he confessed what he had done. We have been married for 32 years.

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