My husband says he wants to put it all behind us and have a normal marriage, a marriage better than we ever had. Yet he admits he has done nothing to rebuild or save our marriage since D-Day in September 2011. He says it is too much work. He even said 2 weeks ago that he was going to sign up for Hope for Healing. Has he, no. Many times he has made promises to me then later admits he only said he would do something so I, "Would shut the 'f' up." He even threatened to hit me last month for asking questions about him and his AP. But he tells me he was only kidding that he would never hit me. This all from an active Christian man. Is there any hope for us?