My husband had a 2 year affair and we are currently separated to work on ourselves to be healthier and really think about what we want out of this. He’s still dealing with his feelings for this other person that haven’t gone away yet. Just need advice on how to deal with that. I feel like I should just ride it out and focus on me during the separation but feel like I’m devalued if I just stick it out when he still has feelings for her.