As my husband and I are trying to reconnect and learn each other‘s love language my husband has now said that he will have no love language and will rely on God for love. This makes me feel as the betrayed spouse a little confused. It sounds good but unrealistic. We had opposite love language I was quality time and he was words of affirmation and as we took the test quality time for him was at the bottom and words of affirmation was at my bottom for me figures right. As I’m growing I want to try when I’m in a good moment to speak his love language but he now says that’s not him anymore he’s learning not to rely on other peoples love. Again something seems wrong with this I need help.