My wife and I are just over a month past discovery and have had 2 d-days, the most recent being a week ago. She had 2 one-night-stands with the same guy over a year. Although generally I believe we are on the right track to healing, something we haven’t been able to work through is the fact that one of their meet ups was at her parents house while she was house sitting. We are very close with her parents and I haven’t been able to go over to their house, see them or even talk to them since this started. They know we are going through something but not any details. I’m not sure what to do, or if we will be able to keep deflecting their “what happened” questions forever. I don’t want to destroy their relationship with my wife by telling them but it seems like we have no choice sometimes.