Q&A How Can I Change My Perception of My Mate? To watch the video please purchase a subscription to the Recovery Library. To watch the video, please purchase a subscription to the Recovery Library.Gain unlimited access to over 1,800 articles and expert Q&A videos.Already a Recovery Library member? Log in to listen to the full recording.Question: I am a betrayed wife. We are 11 months post D-Day. We are committed to each other and recovery, and are beginning EMSO this week. We love each other and have more good days than bad. But I have a problem I have not shared with my unfaithful husband. Every time I look at him, I “see” his affair and affair partner. Sometimes it feels as if even looking at him triggers me.Sections: Rick's Q & A timeRick's QuestionsRL_Category: Find HopeQ&A Recovery LibraryThe Role of EmpathyRL_Media Type: Video