My husband and I are currently in week 12 of EMS Online. I have completely forgiven my husband and we both feel that our marriage is better than it has ever been. We have resumed our sexual intimacy and we both feel that it has improved in so many ways also. Before my husbands infidelity, oral sex was very much a part of our sexual relationship and enjoyed by both of us. My husband had oral sex with his affair partner. I have always viewed oral sex as the ultimate form of intimacy and vulnerability. Now the thought of resuming this part of a relationship seems insufferable and repulsive. I love my husband and I wish that I didn’t feel this way now but I don’t know how I can ever change how this makes me feel. How can we reclaim this intimate part of our sexuality?