Q&A How Do I Not Feel Betrayed After Years of Dismissal?

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Question

I uncovered a lot of detail in discovering my wife's affair. She did many things, including intimate acts, with her affair partner that I had previously asked and wanted to do together. She was excited to do them during the affair but now has no interest in those things with me. First, how do I not feel slighted or less than in her heart at her expressed disinterest in ever doing that with me, it truly hurts? How do I not feel betrayed that she dismissed me for years, sexually, but was so ready for the affair partner any time he wanted?

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