My husband and I are separated but we are supposed to be working on reconciliation. He has gone 6 weeks or more without contacting me. He will respond ok if I contact him but he seems evasive and has excuses for not keeping in touch. He says he's working on his computer. I found out about 2 weeks ago he contacted a mutual friend at 5:30 in the morning to wish her a Happy Birthday. When I ask him - he admitted he was flirting with her but he said he wasn't going to have an affair with her. He had two emotional affairs and I found out last October. He is going to a therapist and says he wants to get better but I'm not sure if this is normal for a guy to act this way? Can you help me?