What Type of Work Does It Take for the Unfaithful or Betrayed to Heal After an Affair or Addiction? Trying to save a relationship after an affair or addiction can be confusing, frustrating and downright excruciating. We often hear leaders or experts in the recovery process say that both couples and individuals need to do 'work' in order to heal and give the relationship a fighting chance. We also hear that, regardless of the status of the relationship, both unfaithful and betrayed partners need to do their own work. But, what is this 'work' they seem to be referring to? What does this 'work' look like specifically, on a grassroots level? Today Samuel shares examples of what this type of work looks like, and what is required to heal from life-changing trauma like infidelity and/or addiction.