Q&A Is It Okay for the Unfaithful to Masturbate While I, the Betrayed, Can’t Be Intimate Right Now Because of Lack of Emotional Connection and a Lot of Hurt? To watch the video please purchase a subscription to the Recovery Library. To watch the video, please purchase a subscription to the Recovery Library.Gain unlimited access to over 1,800 articles and expert Q&A videos.Already a Recovery Library member? Log in to listen to the full recording.Question: It makes me feel as though he is still cheating and that I’m not worth waiting for, or working for, to get that connection back. It also pushes me further away thinking he doesn’t need me. Please help!! He says he can’t wait for me. It’s only been 4 weeks since D-Day. He says he needs the relief that masturbation gives him.Sections: Rick's Q & A timeRick's QuestionsRL_Category: For The Hurt SpouseQ&A Recovery LibraryRecovery FundamentalsRL_Media Type: Video