Q&A Is It Unreasonable for Me To Need Fundamental Change To Feel Safe?
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Question
Six months after D-Day, my unfaithful husband says he would be open to including things like sex clubs or swinging if I wanted it, though he says he’s fine not doing that. I see sex in marriage as sacred and exclusive. The fact that he can even conceptualize it differently makes me feel unsafe and like our values may not align. Is it unreasonable for me to need him to fundamentally change his perspective on sex in order to feel safe? Or is this about my trauma response?
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