Q&A Should I Continue In My Own Healing In the Hopes She Will Rejoin?

My wife and I are almost 5 months from d-day and she is becoming more and more hyper vigilant in her control of my life. It’s to the point of not being able to function with our business. I made some emotional commitments to her about working from home at first but it wasn’t long before it became evident they wouldn’t work, the business began to suffer and I didn’t communicate that as well as I should have to my wife and just broke the promise. Now she is doubling down on the control and won’t even consider a compromise. She is dropping out of EMS Online and I cannot continue to function in this environment. We are in a constant state of turmoil with little or no hope of healing in sight. I’m in Hope for Healing week 8, we cried together over the week 7 letter which I wrote from her perspective and I thought it was a huge step forward in my empathy understanding. We are headed into week 2 of EMS Online but she refuses to even look at it, should I continue in my own healing in the hopes she will rejoin?