Q&A Should I Tell My Mate That Their Affair Partner Tried to Contact Them?
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Question
My husband and I are 10 weeks past our D-Day. He has started H4H and I have signed up for HH. We are now committed to our marriage, but he had a terrible detox and ambivalence period after his AP cut off contact with him on D-Day. He had to take off work and go on antidepressants. About 6 weeks ago his AP reached out to him via a website the three of us use. He never saw it because he has her blocked. I saw it, because I didn't block her. Should I tell him his AP reached out to him? I hate feeling like I'm keeping a secret from him, but I can't see how telling him would do anything good- especially since we just started moving in the right direction. His affair was highly limerent and he felt like he was meant to leave me and be with her.
What type of affair was it?
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