Hi Rick, My wife feels violated because I brought my AP to our bedroom and other rooms in our house. She feels there is no way she can get past it. Is there anything that can help her get through this to a place of eventual forgiveness? We have been to the EMS weekend and are both signed up for aftercare courses online. The affair lasted 4 years and D-day was January 12, 2016. The disclosure of the bedroom and house was while we were at the EMS weekend in May. Thanks for your thoughts on this.