Q&A What Do You Mean by 'My Mate Is Never My Problem. My Mate Only Reveals the Problem in Me'?

Submitted by Rick_Reynolds Wed, 07/19/2017 - 08:44

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Hi Rick, I hear you say in videos and I read in the AR material, "My mate is not my problem. My mate reveals the problem in me." Can you explain this a little bit and provide some examples from both perspectives...betrayed and unfaithful? Is it related to anger or passive-aggressive behavior? Thanks

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