Hi Rick,

I got a text that was meant for the affair partner, this being after him choosing to stay with me 8 months after I found out. He calls her babe and other expressions of love that he has never done with. Why? And why doesn't he now, 40 months later, while he is being more attentive and loving than ever? Plus he still doesn't want to talk about anything. Says it's too painful. I was the one that was betrayed and he acts like he is the one that was wronged, betrayed. Wish he could call me baby, or any endearing loving name or other expressions of love to show his affection and love.