Q&A Why Was It Easy for Him to Be Nice to Everyone but Me, His Wife?

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Question

For our entire relationship my husband has been pimping tenderness. This being a new word for both of us. I just called him my social butterfly and he thought he was just charming. Until his charming got him into an affair. During our relationship I would ask him to talk with me but he would say your not interested. He was right I didn’t need him to flirt with me I wanted more. But he wasn’t interested. If my husband needed a constant mirror why wouldn’t he look to me for that connection when I’m saying I want to engage? Why was it so easy for him to be so nice and complimentary to everyone that wasn’t his wife?

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