Q&A Will My Children Lose Respect for Me If I Reconcile? To watch the video please purchase a subscription to the Recovery Library. To watch the video, please purchase a subscription to the Recovery Library.Gain unlimited access to over 1,800 articles and expert Q&A videos.Already a Recovery Library member? Log in to listen to the full recording.Question: My husband and I have been married 35 years. This past summer he had an affair with a much younger friend of ours. Our 3 adult daughters, know about the affair. I am concerned about reconciling with my husband, but still showing my daughters that it is not ok for your mate to treat you this way. I do not want them to lose respect for me.Sections: Rick's Q & A timeRick's QuestionsRL_Category: Helping Your ChildrenQ&A Recovery LibraryRL_Media Type: Video