Surviving Infidelity: How Do You Handle The Disclosure Process? If I asked you to look back upon your own personal D-Day or Ground Zero, what was it like? (D-Day or Ground Zero are the terms we use to describe the day your, or your spouse’s affair was disclosed or discovered) Did they share everything all at once? Or, did they make the mistake of leaking out information over a few days or months or quite possibly, over a few years? We call this ‘trickling-truth’ or ‘drip feeding’ your spouse. Maybe you’re like many who experience two, three or even four ‘D-Day’s’ where new information is disclosed. New information is not only sad and debilitating for the betrayed spouse, but it inadvertently restarts the clock of both your personal, and marital recovery all over again. The betrayed spouse is forced to process new information which in turn creates a devastating restart to the recovery process where all momentum and forward progress disintegrates. At this point, the unfaithful spouse is not a safe vessel for the betrayed to reconnect with. Full disclosure is the pillar to a recovery process. As long as there are secrets, disorientation and disconnection will perpetually have a foothold in both the marriage and in the recovery process. At Affairrecovery.com all of our courses and intensives are layered with the pivotal truth that in order to truly begin the healing process, all secrets must be brought to the light in a safe environment with expert care and support. Our EMS Weekend provides a safe haven for those who are looking for direction in even the most difficult and challenging situations. Remember, there is hope for you and there is hope for your marriage. It’s our honesty in both disclosure and the recovery process which gives birth to forward momentum. Today, I’d like to share with you a free video with personal insight from myself and those who have had to live through multiple D Days and the overall disclosure process: Sections: NewsletterFounder's LaptopFree ResourcesHot Off the PressRL_Category: Emotional RegulationHandling DiscoveryRebuilding TrustRecovery FundamentalsRL_Media Type: Video