Q&A How Can I Enjoy an Activity with my Spouse When he did it With his Affair Partner?

Question

My husband had an affair with an old college girlfriend. I have always seen that she is not a very good person; selfish, manipulative, two-faced and attention seeking. He is seeing some of these things about her now too and I am so thankful for this. The problem is that there is one area where she is undeniably “better” than me. She was raised showing cattle and I was not. This is my husband’s passion. While my husband is committed reconciling and never havi...