Q&A How can I get my Spouse to let me Heal?

Question

My husband and I came to EMS two weekends ago. He is still "not getting it" and can only see that his needs of sex are not being met. He's asked our church counselor how we can speed up recovery. My question is: (1) When he only talks to me about his need for sex and how long it's been, when I am still reeling in pain from his choice to cheat, how do I make it clear to him (without sounding like a nag) that his needs are not important right now and healing MUS...