Q&A Do I Run or Reconcile?

Question

Many of the articles on AR suggest that IF your unfaithful spouse (husband in my situation) (1) still has lots of pride, or (2) thinks they can do it on their own, or (3) you're not sure if they are still completely honest (in my case, mostly about past addictions they won't clearly fess up or are in denial over), THEN the hurt spouse should "proceed with caution", or in some instances, run! How do you know where you fall on the spectrum of that range, and w...