Q&A When will my Husband Understand his Feelings so that I can Feel Safe? To watch the video please purchase a subscription to the Recovery Library. To watch the video, please purchase a subscription to the Recovery Library.Gain unlimited access to over 1,800 articles and expert Q&A videos.Already a Recovery Library member? Log in to listen to the full recording.Question: We are in week four of the EMS online class. Will the class eventually help my husband develop the ability for self-reflection deep enough to understand what part of him made it okay to cheat -- twice? I don't believe being sorry for the pain he's caused me will be enough to keep him from re-offending if he doesn't learn to communicate on a deeper level. He's very good at tightly controlling his emotions and hiding his true feelings.Sections: Rick's Q & A timeRick's QuestionsRL_Category: Find HopeFor The Hurt SpouseQ&A Recovery LibrarySafety in RecoveryWhy They Did ItRL_Media Type: Video