All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse How to Survive Infidelity 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 The Problem with Forgiveness Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery The Power of Small Groups How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) 4912 Resources Type Title Posted If my husband didn't tell me everything at discovery does that make our last 4 years a lie? 3/19/2012 Surviving Infidelity: Finding the Root Problem And How To Heal 3/14/2012 Rick's Q & A call on March 12 3/05/2012 Rick's Q & A call on March 5 2/24/2012 How do I take care of myself and my little ones as our family breaks apart? How do I heal when my husband wont do what it takes? 2/24/2012 It's been a year since discovery and I'm still confused, we don't seem as close, should I give up if I'm still not sure what to do? 2/24/2012 Survey results for Valentine’s Day: Surviving Infidelity & Surviving Valentine’s Day 2/14/2012 Rick's Q & A Call on February 27 2/13/2012 The Valentine's Day After Syndrome and Survey Results 2/13/2012 Welcome to the Recovery Library 2/02/2012 I found the chapter on reminders to be helpful, but need help with how to counter my intrusive thoughts with the truth, any suggestions? 1/31/2012 It's been 10 months since discovery and we're doing well, is it too early to both recommit to our marriage? 1/31/2012 My wife is lying about contact with her AP and is planning on meeting him, should I continure having sex with her and continue with trying to be what she wants? 1/31/2012 My AP continues to text me, I've told my spouse and neither of us have responded, what should we do? 1/31/2012 What advice do you have for bringing our sexual relationship back online? 1/31/2012 My huband has put constraints on when I can ask questions and he won't accept respoinsiblity for his actions, what can I do? 1/31/2012 My husband is a sex addict and now when I go out in public I'm so distrurbed by seeing women I think he might be attracted to I break down in tears, what can I do? 1/31/2012 Rick's Q & A Call on February 13 1/31/2012 How can I discuss my feelings with my mate and help him not be defensive? 1/31/2012 I'm the unfaithful spouse and my repair attempts sound like justification, denial or minimizing, what can I do to approach my mate in a more productive manner? 1/31/2012 Rick's Q & A Call on January 30 1/23/2012 Rebuilding Trust After An Affair 1/18/2012 My mate won't participate in the post EMS calls, what should I do? 1/16/2012 My wife has little or no insight into what her affair did to me, is "getting it" necessary for reparing a marriage and is there hope that she will care about the hurt she caused me? 1/16/2012 My wife is having intrusive thoughts about what I said to my AP when we're having sex, is there anythiing I can do to help the situation? 1/16/2012 Rick's Q & A Call on January 23 1/16/2012 How can I confront my husband without making him defensive? 1/16/2012 How can I help my mate with intrusive thoughts? 1/16/2012 My mate wants me to tell her why I had an affair and what she was doing wrong, how can I respond? 1/16/2012 Rick's Q & A Call on January 16 1/10/2012 Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) 12/29/2011 Surviving Infidelity: What Is Narcissism? 12/28/2011 Rick's Q & A Call on January 9 12/19/2011 My husband has a sexual addiction, yet he won't get help. We are going to a marriage counselor, but I'm afraid he'll relapse, any suggestions? 12/19/2011 My husband ended a 3 year affair and now 9 months later he claims he doesn't think about her, is that possible? 12/14/2011 Rick's Q & A Call on December 19 12/14/2011 How do I deal with intrusive thoughts when I'm trying to make love to my mate? I keep comaring myself to the other woman and thinking about what they did 12/05/2011 I'm separated from my husband at Christmas, his son and wife have sent me a list of what they'd like for Christmas, with the seperation how do I respond? 12/05/2011 I'm trying to process my own healing as well as trying to function as my mate's emotional caretaker any suggestions on what to do? 12/05/2011 Rick's Q & A Call on December 12 12/05/2011 It's recommended that we separate but my wife says if we separate she want a divorce, how do we compromise? 12/05/2011 What can I do to help my wife get rid of the visions of me and my affair partner? They haunt and torment her enough to drive her to drink, and she doesn't drink! 12/05/2011 I've told my wife that what I did isn't her fault, but she continues to question me and it's making me mad, any suggestions? 12/02/2011 Rick's Q & A Call on December 5 12/02/2011 How do I encourage my mate to join me in forginess work? 12/02/2011 My husband has never taken responsibiltiy for what he's done, we're seperated, how will this hinder the healing for my children and myself? 11/07/2011 My husband's anger has really hurt me and he refuses to listen, I've uninvited him to Thanksgiving because it doesn't feel safe, what do I tell the kids? 11/07/2011 Rick's Q & A Call on November 28 11/07/2011 If my mate is withdrawn how do I get them to engage if they don't seem to want to? 10/31/2011 My mate is conflict avoidant and says yes to things he doesn't want and then gets angry at me, what can I do? 10/31/2011 Pages« first‹ previous…878889909192939495…next ›last »
