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Alumna, betrayed. Healing from loss of betrayal, marriage, spouse, and the life I thought I had…to discover hope for new beginnings. As a Grief Recovery Specialist, I am passionate about helping others find hope again.

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Alumna, betrayed. After enduring Betrayal Trauma, Karen developed a passion for assisting other betrayed partners in their journey to grieve, find hope, and rebuild their lives following such a life-shattering event.

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Wayward codependent. Empowering others to find hope and healing in their own recovery and restoration journey. Passionate about the ripple effects of healing from infidelity on the younger generations.

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Alumni. Rodney and Angela. Channeling hope and healing through music after experiencing God's healing power from the tsunami of infidelity.

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Alumna, navigating recovery from both sides of infidelity. Bringing hope to those enduring their darkest moments.

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Alumna. Betrayed. Seeking to inspire hope in those recovering from the devastating effects of infidelity or addiction.

Mickey

Alumnus. Wayward. Encouraging those walking the road of addiction recovery by sharing his own journey of healing and restoration.

Jen

Alumna, Betrayed. Seeking God's grace to find meaning and purpose in the pain. Hoping to share my life raft with others drowning in the despair of infidelity.

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Alumnus, Wayward. Providing hope, encouragement and infidelity-specific insight to anyone in recovery from betrayal.

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Alumna. Betrayed. Sharing her testimony of God's miraculous healing from betrayal trauma to inspire hope in others.

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Alumna. Wayward. Sharing hope with others struggling from the shame and destruction of their bad choices. Restoring the broken pieces by the healing power of God’s unfailing love.

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Alumna. Wayward. Striving to become a woman of integrity. Together, we can find light in the darkness of infidelity.

Christine

Alumna. Betrayed. Striving to recover and thrive after betrayal. I believe gratitude is the antidote to grief. If I can help you in your healing, therein lies my own.

Jessica

Alumna. Member, EMS Weekend Retreat Team. Hope and healing are possible for anyone willing to work through the pain.

Chase

Alumnus. Betrayed. Trying to find his way back.

Elizabeth

Alumna. Wayward. A broken and undeserving mess who is learning what real love looks like.

Lisa

Alumna. Betrayed. Determined to be positive as I navigate the quagmire of recovery.

Lynn

Alumna. Betrayed. A soul restored. Encouraging others to keep walking because there is a way through. Author of Keep Walking: 40 Days to Hope and Freedom After Betrayal

Amy

Alumna. Betrayed. Grateful for God's love and grace. Recognizing that with God as my priority, I will be okay no matter what.

Erick

Alumnus. Betrayed. No matter how long it takes or how hard it is, my wife is always worth it!

Julia

Alumna. Betrayed. Learning to love recklessly while I cross the monkey bars of recovery.
"You have to let go at some point in order to move forward." - C.S. Lewis

Reese

Alumna. Betrayed. Walking in obedience to God's direction and experiencing a richer life and Renewed marriage.

Steve

Alumnus. Wayward. Living life differently, enjoying my wife and family, and grateful for God’s love.

Carlie

Alumna. Betrayed. Experiencing God's love after divorce. Celebrating the healing of myself and my identity.

Dana

Alumna. Betrayed. Continuing to fight for my marriage and my children.

Jack

Alumnus. Wayward. Living proof that seeking truth offers both incredible pain and amazing freedom.

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Submitted by Kelsham on Sat, 09/10/2016 - 22:44

I'm the betrayed. I have told my spouse that I don't have deal breakers in our marriage. I never planned or gave thought to divorce, even prior to his first confession. D-day was July 2015. In May of 2016, there was disclosure of a casual sex, oral sex partner before and after our wedding 25 years ago.

But now, if I want clarity, a time line at least on this most recent disclosure, I hit a wall. He's defensive, and angry. I've told him I would separate if needed, but I don't want to. I want open honest discussion, even when it's tough.

He believes if I'm willing to separate then I'm just going to divorce him in the long run. So any question I have about his first AP or the timing of it turns into an argument about me leaving him.

Submitted by Still in shock (not verified) on Fri, 03/01/2019 - 20:43

I am living the same life. I am 18 months in and the pain is no different then D day. My husband spent the last 18 months refusing to talk about the affair. When I forced the conversation, he lied. I became obsessed trying to figure out my life. I would find new information and he would get angry with me. Because of all this I now suffer from PTSD. Triggers invade my thoughts constantly. I wake up thinking about it and end the day thinking about it. I just want to be my happy self again.

there is hope for you to heal....

Submitted by Samuel on Mon, 03/04/2019 - 14:18

hi there. i would encourage you to find help as soon as possible through something called EMDR for trauma or even ETT. they are both wonderful vehicles to help you heal and move forward. have you looked at harboring hope on our site as well as it's an excellent place to begin to find your own comfort and healing.

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