My wife and I completed the EMS online about a month ago. Although it was extremely helpful when we were going through it - the combination of her telling me about a fourth affair nine weeks into the program, my mate not wanting to do the Married for Life continuation, any more of the work that brought us so close together and increased our intimacy tremendously - I'm feeling like things have returned to 'pretend normal' again. Do you know any Affair Recovery certified counselors in the San Diego region?

If there are conflicts and issues in your relationship that require professional help, we urge you to consult a licensed marriage therapist or counselor if you or your spouse believe that such services may be beneficial to either of you or your relationship. By calling 1-800-964-2000, you can reach The American Psychological Association which can provide referrals in your area, or if you are interested in finding a qualified counselor who operates from a faith based perspective then call the American Association of Christian Counselors at 800-526-8673. Whether or not you're currently engaged in therapy or counseling, you are, of course, welcome to participate in Affair Recovery. Just bear in mind that Affair Recovery is not a substitute for professional counseling or therapy.