Q&A How Can I Communicate That I'm Choosing My Mate? To watch the video please purchase a subscription to the Recovery Library. To watch the video, please purchase a subscription to the Recovery Library.Gain unlimited access to over 1,800 articles and expert Q&A videos.Already a Recovery Library member? Log in to listen to the full recording.Question: My husband feels I settled for him. I don’t understand why he doesn’t believe I chose him. We have both been unfaithful to each other and been through EMS and healing. I just don’t understand where this comes from. How can I communicate that I chose to be with him then and now?Sections: Rick's Q & A timeRick's QuestionsRL_Category: For The Hurt SpouseFor the Unfaithful SpouseQ&A Recovery LibraryRecovery FundamentalsRL_Media Type: Video