Q&A How Do I Approach My Mate about My Suspicion of an Affair? To watch the video please purchase a subscription to the Recovery Library. To watch the video, please purchase a subscription to the Recovery Library.Gain unlimited access to over 1,800 articles and expert Q&A videos.Already a Recovery Library member? Log in to listen to the full recording.Question: I am suspicious that my wife had an affair. If she did, I believe it ended some time ago. I have no “proof” only gut instinct and the logic which comes from connecting dots. Should I ask her? If so, how? Or should I simply trust because I have no evidence? But it is gnawing at me.Sections: Rick's Q & A timeRick's QuestionsRL_Category: Handling DiscoveryQ&A Recovery LibraryRL_Media Type: Video