Q&A How Do I Get My Mate to Understand What They've Done? To watch the video please purchase a subscription to the Recovery Library. To watch the video, please purchase a subscription to the Recovery Library.Gain unlimited access to over 1,800 articles and expert Q&A videos.Already a Recovery Library member? Log in to listen to the full recording.Question: When does the unfaithful recognize that the answers and healing they seek are within themselves and healing the marriage is secondary to the honesty they need to find themselves?Sections: Rick's Q & A timeRick's QuestionsRL_Category: For The Hurt SpouseQ&A Recovery LibraryRL_Media Type: Video