Q&A What Can the Wayward Spouse Do to Help the Betrayed Find Acceptance and Healing?

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Question

My spouse and I have been trying to recover from my betrayal for almost 3 years. We are currently in the last week of EMS Online. My issue is that I stretched full disclosure out for over 2 years, and caused a lot of unnecessary hurt to my spouse. At this point she is stuck and in worst place she has been. She has not been able to accept what I have done and still searches for answers to questions that I have no answers to. Also she is upset that I do not share her vivid memories of our past and says it's because I did not care. She feels like I have never loved her. What can I do to help her get to a point where she is at acceptance so she can begin to heal? EMS Online seems to set her back week after week.

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