Samuel shares insight in today's video on how infidelity can seemingly drowns it's victims.
Samuel shares in this video about how to replace the emotions caught up in infidelity and recovery from affairs.
Today, Samuel gets pointed in his video discussion about whether or not were attached to an outcome in our recovery from infidelity, and when it's good to be attached to an outcome.
In today's video, Samuel shares his own stories of him changing personally before the overall situation changed between he and Samantha while they were recovering from his infidelity.
Samuel shares in today's video how pain changes us, especially the pain from infidelity.
For a variety of reasons after D-day I became disconnected with my family. In a way it surprises me. After all, I come from a family of betrayers and betrayed. I have three siblings. Two have been both unfaithful and betrayed and one has been betrayed. I have been betrayed. Four for four. Our parents were both unfaithful and betrayed in multiple marriages. That’s six for six.
My husband, unfaithful, has one brother, unfaithful, and one sister, betrayed. That’s nine for nine. I believe his parents were both faithful (his father died before the age of 40 but his mom appears to have had a solid second marriage. But...
Samuel shares insight on how both he and Samantha's life were changed by infidelity.
How do you know what's right or wrong in recovery after an affair? Samuel shares in this video, how to find a compass in recovery to make sure both spouses are doing what is right.
In this video, Samuel shares thoughts on how to face your situation however dark it is, to find new life and healing after an affair.
Samuel discusses more of his own personal story and trying to run from the dysfunction and how it affected Samantha as they worked to recover from his affair and infidelity in their marriage.
For years leading up to D-day my husband and I were leading separate lives under the same roof. We weren’t angry with each other. We weren’t making threats to divorce or having screaming arguments. We had family supper together every night. We went on family vacations. We talked about politics, family, the latest national news, friends, and a host of other topics. But we never talked about our relationship. We were disconnected emotionally. We lived a life of pretend normal that was externally the model marriage but internally suffocating. Intimacy was gone, not just in the bedroom, in every aspect of our relationship. Looking...
Today Samuel discusses a critical step in recovery after an affair...saving yourself.
Samuel shares an important phrase in recovery during this video that discusses when someone typically will end an affair.
Today Samuel shares in his video, four key components to recovery which are essential to long term healing after an affair.
Samuel continues sharing with his newest vlog on understanding the mindset of an unfaithful spouse who is stuck between their affair partner and their spouse.
Samuel shares a new vlog on understanding the mindset of an unfaithful spouse who is stuck between their affair partner and their spouse.
Today, Samuel shares in his video insights as to why repaired marriages can be so life giving.
Marriage vows. Promises you make at your wedding ceremony as you commit your life to your mate. You can write your own, heartfelt vows or go the traditional route. On a day full of optimism and hope the marriage vows cement two lives into one. My wedding day was years in the making. I was finally marrying the man I had fallen in love with in high school. We had already been through what I considered at that time the worse that life could throw at us. It had taken us eleven years to reach the marriage altar and promise our lives to each other. We were on the home stretch! Yes, my vows had meaning for me,...
Today Samuel poses the question in his video, "Is it worth it to pursue recovery after an affair even if it looks like it's over?"
Samuel discusses the topic of rushing through recovery after an affair and how we may find ourselves missing some important steps.
Samuel discusses a critical mistake many couples make adding to the frustration of recovery and restoration following infidelity.
Samuel shares a jarring story of financial ruin while going through recovery from infidelity and the tools he and Samantha developed.
Samuel discusses in this video why it's a good idea to do recovery work, even if you're unsure about whether you or your spouse wants to save the marriage after affairs and infidelity.
Samuel offers hope in this video from his own story on how to make it through a difficult day in recovery from an affair and infidelity.
One year ago my husband disclosed his sex addiction to me and our lives changed. In the beginning, I would have told you our lives changed in a bad way but now I see it differently. In reality, my husband coming clean about his own addiction has catapulted me into the healing I so desperately had been hoping and praying for.
We have only been married for 8 years but a lot has happened in that period of time. I slowly shut down, knowing there was “something” else going on but not knowing what that “something” was. The more I shut down, the less I was able to...
When my husband’s affairs were discovered just over two years ago I had all the predictable emotions; anger, confusion, agony, and so much more. Eleven days later when we decided to work on our marriage I still had those emotions but now I had fear:
On the one hand, I felt as if it was necessary for me to try and save our marriage for many reasons:
Samuel discusses a difficult and common topic in recovery from infidelity during this video: Why the betrayed ask questions and want details.
In today's video, Samuel discusses resistance to recovery work after an affair and how to address the raw trauma of infidelity.
Samuel continues part 2 of his video series today on bitterness and discusses techniques on diffusing and overcoming it.
Two years since d-day. I can’t believe it! When my husband’s affairs were discovered I didn’t think I would survive that first day. The minutes were agonizing. Time slowed to a crawl. I was reduced to pure, raw emotion. There was no existence without pain. I wished I would die. I knew I would die. My heart was shattered and it would kill me.
Over the next few days I was in a fog. I took one day off work but that was all I could afford. When I wasn’t crying I would sit and stare. I worked by rote. Zombie. Barely functioning. My emotions were all over the place. I was furious, full of hatred,...
