All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? How to Survive Infidelity Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair The Power of Small Groups Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? 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Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision 4966 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A How Do I Deal with Continued Fantasy Thinking? 12/12/2018 Q&A Is This Normal or Is This a Sign of Unforgiveness? 12/12/2018 Q&A Is ‘Rubber Necking’ or Blatant Attention to Other Flirtatious Women Part of Infidelity? 12/12/2018 Q&A Should the Wayward Spouse Delete All Reminders of the Affair Partner? 12/05/2018 Q&A How Do I Overcome Things with My Addictive Personality? 12/05/2018 Q&A How Can I Communicate That I Understand My Mates Pain? 12/05/2018 Q&A How Can I Tell If My Spouse Is Being Honest? 12/05/2018 Q&A Am I Too Broken? 12/05/2018 Q&A How Do I Get My Anger under Control? 12/05/2018 Q&A Do I Need to Separate from This Crazy Situation? 12/05/2018 Q&A How Do I Make My Mate Feel Safe After All of This? 12/05/2018 Q&A Can I Ever Expect a Normal Life? 12/05/2018 Q&A Why Is My Betrayed Spouse Interrogating Me about Everyone of the Opposite Sex? 12/05/2018 Q&A How Do I Know I'm Not Paranoid? 11/28/2018 Q&A Should I Approach the Married Man That Won’t Stop Texting My Wife or Perhaps His Wife? 11/28/2018 Q&A Will We Ever Find New Life After This? 11/28/2018 Q&A How Do I Overcome Emotional Abuse from My Mate? 11/28/2018 Q&A How Can I Accept His Affection Without It Triggering so Much Pain? 11/28/2018 Q&A Should I Tell My Mate That Their Affair Partner Tried to Contact Them? 11/28/2018 Q&A Can You Tell Me the Steps to Take to Mourn My Marriage? 11/28/2018 Q&A How Can I Regain Her Trust Again? 11/28/2018 Q&A What Happens When the Wayward Refuses to Get Help? 11/28/2018 Q&A Why Isn’t My Mate Showing Empathy? 11/28/2018 Q&A Should We Participate in EMS Online before Seeking Individual Healing? 11/26/2018 Q&A Is Our Marriage Doomed Because My Mate Is Unwilling to Make Amends? 11/26/2018 Q&A How Do I Interpret and Handle My Unfaithful Husband’s Lack of Pursuit and Desire for Me? 11/26/2018 Q&A Should I Suggest Addiction Counseling to My Mate? 11/26/2018 Q&A How Do I Handle My Husbands Affairs? 11/26/2018 Q&A How Should I Handle My Husband's Ambivalence? 11/26/2018 Q&A How Are Fear and Desire Related? 11/26/2018 Q&A How Do I Find a Credible Polygrapher in My Area and Should I Use One? 11/26/2018 Q&A What Do You Do If Your Spouse Refuses Full Disclosure? 11/26/2018 Q&A Am I Wrong for Feeling Exhausted? 11/26/2018 Q&A How Do I Respond to Relapse? 11/26/2018 Q&A How Do I Reconnect to the Good Memories? 11/26/2018 Q&A What Advice Do You Have for Separation? 11/26/2018 Q&A Are There Certain Personalities That Cannot Heal from Infidelity? 11/21/2018 Q&A How Can I Convince My Mate Not to Contact Her Affair Partner for Closure? 11/21/2018 Q&A How Do I Confront My Mate about Their Porn Use? 11/21/2018 Q&A What Role Does an Alcoholic as the Betrayed Play in Recovery? 11/21/2018 Q&A Why Can't I Stop Thinking about the Affair Partner? 11/21/2018 Q&A How Do I Get My Feelings Back for My Husband? 11/21/2018 Q&A Why Is My Mate Holding Back Details? 11/21/2018 Q&A Will Affair Recovery Be Enough for Me to Heal? 11/21/2018 Q&A How Can We Create Safety When We Are Apart? 11/21/2018 Q&A Why Won't My Mate Agree to Renew Our Vows? 11/21/2018 Q&A Should We Disclose to the Affair Partner's Spouse? 11/21/2018 Q&A How Do I Find Empathy? 11/21/2018 Q&A How Do I Deal with the Tension of Seemingly Opposite Suggestions for the Recovery Process? 11/07/2018 Q&A How Do I Get My Mate to Understand What They've Done? 11/07/2018 Pages« first‹ previous…383940414243444546…next ›last »