Climbing out of the Hole of Infidelity: Do's and Don'ts

Submitted by Samuel Thu, 09/14/2017 - 13:16

Samuel shares pertinent information on what to do and not to do in the pit of infidelity.

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The Hole

Submitted by shatteredagain on

Thank you Samuel - a good analogy. I received another one this past week from my Pastor which I would like to share. The infidelity and the pain is a hole in our marriage. It will never completely go away. I have to adjust my daily routines, thoughts and feelings by walking around the hole. It is inconvenient, it is unfair, it is unpleasant. It is ugly to see in my path 24/7. In time, the inconvenience of walking around it will become a norm and I will eventually be able to dance around it. When I can easily dance around it and not trip near the edges then it may even shrink from my view.

thanks for the post and analogy....

Submitted by Samuel on

thank you for watching my friend.  although, i will tell you, it will go away.  the hole can and will be filled with the right help, with time and with effort.  we don't have a hole now.  sure if i dig it back up, or relapse or do something stupid, the hole can be dug up, but will in fact, go away.  i hope you'll continue to heal and find new life but it won't always be like this.  

 

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I would highly recommend giving this a try.
 
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