Good morning, I am the betrayed. I am very fearful right now that I may heal myself right out of my marriage because my husband is not really healing himself. He is doing work on the “us” side but he’s not doing work truly on himself. I call it his emotions box, he shoves all his emotions in his box and every time he lifts the lid to cram another in ,the box is like the box with all the worms in it and you open it and they all fly out, and he scrambles to pick them up and shove them back in. I want with all my heart to heal myself and to heal us better than ever but, I’m fearful that the “us” can’t get healed because he himself has not healed. I am so confused I am very careful because I really want my marriage, we’ve been together for 30 years and married for 26 of those and he is my world even though it’s upside down right now and I don’t want to, like I said heal myself right out of my marriage! Please help