How Do You Find New Life after an Affair?

After an affair, the lives of both the unfaithful and the betrayed are seldom ever the same. It can feel as though that version of themselves is gone forever and they're left without any hope of returning to who they were before the affair. Attempting to go back to one's old life after disclosure can feel impossible while trying to accept this new identity can also feel unreachable. Without a guide and without a plan, those in crisis can feel disoriented and lost, oftentimes succumbing to the temptation to lie down and give up. However, new life is always possible and new joy is attainable. Listen in as Samuel shares pivotal insight into finding new life as an unfaithful or betrayed.

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Re: burying vile versions of myself

Thank you Samuel. I'm tired of despising myself. Rather, as you've said, I can find new meaning in my life and in my marriage if I can bury the old versions of myself that caused so much pain. I appreciate your words here and it gives me new hope.
And yes, I am guilty of your last point and I will find a way to express to my wife my desire to work on the new me.
~Steve

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I would highly recommend giving this a try.
 
-D, Texas