When a spouse or partner has an affair, their next response is essential. Are they willing to do repair work? Are they willing to own what they need to own? Are they open to getting outside, expert help in an effort to see what they cannot see? It can be like walking a tightrope for either partner who is wanting to save the relationship, but isn't sure where the lines should be drawn to protect themselves, but also humble themselves and win back their partner. Unfaithful spouses can feel as though they are locked into a prison of punitive servitude for the remainder of the relationship. Betrayed spouses can feel like they will never measure up to the affair partner, and can feel a sense of anger, bitterness, and hurt for the remainder of the relationship. My friends, I am here to tell you that there is a better way. We can heal our relationships, while also maintaining our own personal identity, confidence and self-worth. Without our own healed and whole self-esteem, we can feel left for dead on the side of the road to healing. Today, you'll hear Samuel discuss how he has been able to not lose himself while also providing direction and hope for hurting people suffering in the aftermath of infidelity. He discusses how they can maintain their own self-love, while walking in humility and openness to their own need to do their own recovery work.