One of the Biggest Needs of the Unfaithful Partner after an Affair: Humility After an affair, the unfaithful party can struggle with a tremendous amount of confusion and disorientation. Of course we know the betrayed can feel this way as well, but today Samuel is going to focus on a discipline that all wayward spouses can learn from: the view from the bottom. Borrowed from a commentary by Richard Rohr, Samuel shares the need for the unfaithful party to adopt and practice humility, both in their approach to life in general, and especially toward their betrayed partner and children. From attitudes of entitlement to self-preoccupation, unfaithfuls make the same mistakes time and time again, and it only sets them, and their relationships, back in spades. Listen today as Samuel shares hope for those who are trying to find a fresh start, both in life and in recovery work.