Anger and the Betrayed Spouse

Samuel, Alumnus
Submitted by Samuel 8 years 10 months

Samuel shares helpful insight for the betrayed spouse on dealing with anger throughout the course of infidelity and disclosure.

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I would highly recommend giving this a try.
 
-D, Texas
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Submitted by Anonymous (not verified) on 8 years 6 months

How long did it take Samantha to get to the forgiving/working the anger stage?

Submitted by Samuel on 8 years 6 months

it probably took a good month or so.....but more importantly was the fact that once we found Rick and an expert driven approach she was able to get there pretty fast.  while we used general help and people who were not experts, it wasn't clicking for her.  once we found experts, it was pretty quick.  sure hope that helps. 

 

Submitted by Fran.C on 7 years 7 months

Hi Sam. Earlier this year you posted a video that was specific to the Betrayed Husband and his anger and how it truly is a different experience compared to the betrayed wife. You mentioned that some marriages were unable to last because of the anger. I really need to hear that one again and I cannot find it. Can you send the link? You said some really helpful things. I remember it really helped us that weekend. We seem to be coming back to that in our recovery. Thank you in advance!

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