Q&A Does Forgiveness Give My Mate a Free Pass?
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Question
I having a really hard time with this concept of grace being the way to excuse all of our sins because Jesus. I mean He also said an rye for an rye and so many other things! This picking and choosing scripture to justify or forgive our betrayals and sins just seem to place all the burdens of getting over this on the betrayed. The unfaithful get a free pass to do whatever regardless because Jesus. That seems screwed up. It’s like blaming the victim in a rape, then using select scriptures to force them to forgive or condone their rapist before they can heal.
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