I wrote in recently about my situation. My husband had a limerent affair for over a year. I stayed and fought for him after I found out even while he was ambivalent. He came home 4 months after D-Day and we have been in recovery for a year. But now he is gone and more than likely not coming back this time as he has completely disconnected from me emotionally and physically. My question is, how do I as the betrayed deal with the emotions that come with not being wanted or chosen a second time and feeling like a failure?