This woman is one of my husband’s many affair partners, but this woman was also a friend. So it was a double betrayal. I am only 3 months out from finding out about this woman. It was sexual for about a year. Then she got a boyfriend and told my husband she wasn’t the kind of woman to sleep with two men at one time. I know the answer is forgiveness, but how do I get there? My counselor said, it’s a grieving process. Please explain that to me. I don’t have any energy to show anger or hate. When I asked you what the opposite of revenge was, you said.. indifference. How do I get to inference?