All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons The Problem with Forgiveness How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain The Power of Small Groups The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery How to Survive Infidelity Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? 4912 Resources Type Title Posted What's a reasonable length of time to give myself to make the decision about staying in the marriage? 4/25/2011 Does your heart follow your behavior? My mate has been cold since discovery of their affair and I want to reconnect with them physically 4/25/2011 How can we have intimacy or a marriage if lies are present? 4/25/2011 How do I get my mate to talk and how can we heal if they wont? Can you give suggestions? 4/25/2011 With sex addiction, is it normal to still have little intimacy after 11 months? When will he start to feel? 4/25/2011 Who needs to know about my affair? I want to tell my friends, but the wife of my AP doesn't want me to 4/25/2011 The Truth about Trust 4/18/2011 Rick's Q & A Call on April 25 4/18/2011 Do I really love my husband if I got involved in an affair? How do I get over the confusion? 4/18/2011 How can you tell if someone has moved back into a narcissistic way of thinking? 4/18/2011 What do I do if my mate wont answer my questions? 4/18/2011 Rick's Q & A Call on April 18 4/12/2011 How does being sexual molested impact my marriage and having an affair? 4/12/2011 Rick's Q & A Call on April 11 4/04/2011 My wife is pregnant, should we tell our families that the affair partner might be the father of the baby? 4/04/2011 Should I continue with the beyond EMS calls if my husband is still in touch with his affair partner? 4/04/2011 If the AP is a first cousin what should the boundaries be? 3/29/2011 Recovering from infidelity Interview with Keesha Ewers of Healthy You Radio 3/25/2011 Rick's Q & A - April 4, 2011 3/24/2011 When do you get so tired and hurt do you throw in the towel and say this relationship has no future? 3/22/2011 If I don't think my husband is honestly addressing and answering the questions asked should I confront him now or wait for the course to do this in the weeks to come? 3/22/2011 In my husband's addiction, am I really his loving wife or am I just another object of his addiction? How can I tell the difference? 3/22/2011 How Many Marriages does Ashley Madison Save? 3/03/2011 Rick's Q & A Call on March 14 3/01/2011 My husband is a sex addict and has many outlet behaviors. Could you help shed some light on this? 3/01/2011 Typical advice tends to backfire when dealing with a Narcissist. They perceive almost everything as a personal attack and react likewise. How to avoid the the counter attack that follows 2/21/2011 What do we tell the kids if they ask if their parent was dating? 2/21/2011 At 9 months I still don't have a sexual desire for my mate, is that normal? 2/21/2011 Checking my mate's telephone and email helps me feel safe, but he views it a an invasion of privacy. What should I do? 2/21/2011 Husband cheated and wife is willing to work on the marriage, but he isn't, what can she do to save her marriage? 2/21/2011 Rick's Q & A Call on February 28 2/21/2011 Intrusive Thoughts Number One Obstacle for Sex Life After Infidelity 2/17/2011 Rick's Q & A Call on February 21 2/08/2011 My mate is acting like nothing ever happened and wont follow through with his relapse prevention plan, what do I do? 2/02/2011 How do I deal with the guilt and shame I'm experiencing? 2/02/2011 How do I take care of myself when my mate gets defensive if I have problems with movies or TV he's watching? 2/02/2011 What happens with the unfaithful spouse that when I try to explain how I feel they get defensive and angry, even if it's feelings about something other than him or the infidelity itself? 2/02/2011 Rick's Q & A Call on February 7 2/02/2011 How can I believe he loves me after what he has done? 2/02/2011 , Can you survive without a mentor? 1/26/2011 , Can you survive without a mentor? 1/26/2011 Should I let my mate read my journal to help her understand how she impacted me? 1/18/2011 What are "Seemingly Unimportant Decisions" (SUDS) and how do people move toward relapse? 1/18/2011 What does taking reponsibility look like and how do I know what need the affair partner was meeting? 1/18/2011 Why is it so difficult to be real with my mate after an affair? 1/18/2011 Rick's Q & A Call on January 31 1/18/2011 How do you set boundaries for your mate? 1/18/2011 If my mate fits multiple catagories for the "Affair Types" does it make it more difficult for him to experience remorse? 1/18/2011 Are you sure it's that you didn't know, or just that you knew it but didn't care at the time? 1/10/2011 My wife cheated and I feel like I'm being overly sensitive and doing most of the work 1/10/2011 Pages« first‹ previous…899091929394959697…next ›last »
