All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain The Problem with Forgiveness Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity How to Survive Infidelity How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors The Power of Small Groups 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery 4957 Resources Type Title Posted I Want My Life Back 9/18/2013 What We Learned at EMS Weekend 9/04/2013 Rick's Q & A Call on September 23, 2013 8/26/2013 It Seems I've Missed the Mark 8/13/2013 Rick's Q & A Call on August 26 8/12/2013 Rick's Q & A Call on August 12 8/05/2013 Grief-Transforming Loss 8/01/2013 Rick's Q & A Call on August 5 7/29/2013 How do you know if you have PTSD and what do you do about it? 7/26/2013 Rick's Q & A Call on July 29 7/26/2013 How do you make restitution after an affair? 7/15/2013 Rick's Q & A Call on July 22 7/15/2013 The Trap 7/10/2013 Rick's Q & A Call on July 15 7/08/2013 Rick's Q & A Call on July 8 7/05/2013 What factors determine how long it takes to recover? Does the anxiety ever go away? 7/05/2013 Rekindling Desire After Infidelity 6/26/2013 Rick's Q & A Call on July 1 6/24/2013 Rick's Q & A Call on June 24 6/17/2013 Rick's Q & A Call on June 17 6/10/2013 Rick's Q & A Call on June 10 6/03/2013 My affair was 20 years ago, do you have any suggestions on how I can remember the details? 5/20/2013 Rick's Q & A Call on June 3 5/20/2013 As the unfaithful spouse, how can I improve my communication with my mate so I don't minimize or make excuses? 5/20/2013 Rick's Q & A Call on May 20 5/13/2013 Rick's Q & A Call on May 13 5/06/2013 Rick's Q & A Call on May 6 4/29/2013 Rick's Q & A Call on April 29 4/22/2013 Why Did My Spouse Cheat? 4/17/2013 Rick's Q & A Call on April 22 4/15/2013 Rick's Q & A Call on April 15 3/25/2013 Rick's Q & A Call on April 1 3/25/2013 Rick's Q & A Call on March 25 3/19/2013 Rick's Q & A Call on March 18 3/12/2013 Rick's Q & A Call on March 11 3/05/2013 Rick's Q & A Call on March 4 2/25/2013 Rick's Q & A Call on February 25 2/18/2013 How do I reconcile who I thought my husband was for 15 years with the person who had the affair, to not see him as a horrible person? 2/11/2013 Rick's Q & A Call on February 18 2/11/2013 Is it possible for my mate to have an affair with someone if they don't know what he's doing? 2/11/2013 Rick's Q & A Call on February 11 2/05/2013 Rick's Q & A Call on February 4 1/28/2013 Rick's Q & A Call on January 28 1/22/2013 Rick's Q & A Call on January 21 1/08/2013 Rick's Questions - January 21, 2013 1/08/2013 My wife is resentful toward me eventhough she's the one who had an affair, she feels she married the wrong person, what can I do? 1/08/2013 Achieving Real Change, part 4 1/01/2013 Surviving the Holidays: 5 tips 12/18/2012 How to Change, Part Three 12/18/2012 Our families are unsupportive of our recovery process, how should we respond? 12/17/2012 Pages« first‹ previous…858687888990919293…next ›last »