All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Rebuilding Trust After An Affair The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair The Power of Small Groups Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal How to Survive Infidelity Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? The Problem with Forgiveness Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) 4912 Resources Type Title Posted My mate is conflict avoidant and says yes to things he doesn't want and then gets angry at me, what can I do? 10/31/2011 My mate seemed to be highly motivated at the beginning of our recovery, but 3 months later we seem to be slipping back into our old ways, when do I call it quits? 10/31/2011 Rick's Q & A call on October 31 10/17/2011 How can I communicate without making my mate defensive? He feels I'm overly critical 10/17/2011 My mate said they feel they are safe from thier AP because they don't feel their AP would want to be with them, that makes me nervous, is that okay? 10/17/2011 Disappointment has caused me to lose my feelings for my husband is that normal and how do I get them back? 10/17/2011 Rick's Q & A call on October 17 10/12/2011 How do you handle close frineds who are probing about what happened, but you don't want to disclose information to them? 10/03/2011 How do you respond if your mate doesn't respect your boundaries? 10/03/2011 Rick's Q & A call on October 10 10/03/2011 I feel I've truly forgiven my mate, but will I always think about what he's done? 10/03/2011 What is going on if a sex addict quits acting out, but isn't engaging in their program and how now become angry? 10/03/2011 What's the avantage to getting help sooner rather than later after discovery? 10/03/2011 We disagree on whether or not he has an addiction which makes me feel unsafe, what can we do? 10/03/2011 Will a hurt spouse heal if they just try to get over it? 10/03/2011 I'm a woman who cheated on her husband and I don't know how to find new passion for my mate, any suggestions? 9/30/2011 We just finished week 7 and I feel my mate is still defensive and doesn't get it, what can I do with my discouragement and how do I respond? 9/30/2011 Rick's Q & A Call on October 3 9/30/2011 If there is a limerant affair why would my husband have so much involvement with her family and intoduce them to my kids? 9/30/2011 How do you handle a stituation where your mate died and then you discovered they were being unfaithful? How do you deal with the betrayal when they are already gone? 9/12/2011 I'm the hurt spouse, is it wise to bring up choices my mate is makeing that really hurt me, or do I need to just suffer silently? 9/12/2011 If you're a sex addict when is it appropriate to have friends of the opposite sex? 9/12/2011 Rick's Q & A Call on September 19 9/12/2011 Do you have any suggestions for couples that address sexual healing? 9/12/2011 How do I deal with my wife's triggers? 8/29/2011 Rick's Q & A Call on September 12 8/29/2011 How does codependecy contribute to infidelty? 8/29/2011 What are some resources for the wife of a porn addict? 8/29/2011 I'm wondering if my mate and I are compatible, when does one call it quits? 8/29/2011 I'm not in love with my mate, how can I ever get those feelings back again? My AP makes me feel ways my mate never has 8/29/2011 Rick's Q & A call on August 29 8/22/2011 Rick's Q & A Call on August 22 8/02/2011 Telling Your Children After the Affair Doesn’t Always Turn Out As Expected 7/27/2011 I said I'd leave if my mate ever cheated on me, am I crazy for staying and trying to work things out? 7/22/2011 When is there too much hurt to reconcile? I can't even let my family know that we're talking, should he try to talk to them? 7/22/2011 Rick's Q & A Call on July 25 7/13/2011 The Definition of Freedom - Before and After an Affair 7/07/2011 Fifteen months after disclosure is it normal to still have emotional flooding and how do I get my husband to understand? 7/05/2011 What boudaries need to be set up at work? 7/05/2011 Rick's Q & A Call on July 11 6/28/2011 Rick's Q & A Call on June 27 6/20/2011 Rick's Q & A Call on June 20 6/13/2011 Rick's Q & A Call on June 13 6/06/2011 HH - Leslie and John Call - May 25, 2011 5/26/2011 Rick's Q & A Call on June 6 5/23/2011 We're at 1 yr and doing great, where do we go from here? 5/16/2011 Rick's Q & A Call on May 23 5/16/2011 I'm having intrusive thoughts about affair partner, should I tell my husband? 5/06/2011 Not knowing what happened Lack of safety in relationship Mate not getting it 5/06/2011 Who needs to know about my affair? I want to tell my friends, but the wife of my AP doesn't want me to 4/25/2011 Pages« first‹ previous…888990919293949596…next ›last »
