All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity The Problem with Forgiveness Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened The Power of Small Groups Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair How to Survive Infidelity Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 4957 Resources Type Title Posted Rick's Q & A Call on January 7 12/17/2012 Is Change Really Possible, Part Two 12/13/2012 I'm changed, but my husband can't forgive me, what should I do? 12/11/2012 Rick's Q & A Call on December 17 12/11/2012 Advice for Holly Petraeus 11/29/2012 How do you respond if the unfaithful spouse refuses to be sexual due to the fact the hurt spouse isn't happy? Should they wait until the unfaithful spouse comes around? 11/28/2012 How do you respond to a pastor who doesn't want the hurt spouse to speak with anyone about what happened for fear of disrespecting the unfaithful spouse? 11/28/2012 I'm having trouble letting go and trusting, are there objective milestones I should look to in our recovery before trusting again? 11/28/2012 Rick's Q & A Call on December 3 11/28/2012 How do I talk to my teenage son about masturbation? 11/28/2012 Infidelity's Trifecta - Why Even the Strongest Can Fall 11/21/2012 , Coping with Infidelity: 6 Barriers to Recovery 11/14/2012 , Coping with Infidelity: 6 Barriers to Recovery 11/14/2012 My affair was 8 years ago and my mate still hasn't gotten over it, He's been detached for 13 months, what can I do to help while in the course? 11/12/2012 My wife and I have both been unfaithful, how do I take responsibity for my part in this when she's also played a part? 11/12/2012 Can we acheive any progress when one spouse is resistent to the program? 11/12/2012 Rick's Questions - January 7, 2013 11/12/2012 Rick's Q & A Call on November 19 11/12/2012 Rick's Q & A Call on November 12 11/06/2012 Understanding Infidelity: Helping the Unfaithful Start Recovery 10/30/2012 Rick's Q & A Call on November 5 10/22/2012 Working on my recovery seems to make my wife angry because she wants to feel pursued, what should I do? 10/22/2012 Rick's Q & A Call on October 22 10/09/2012 If my mate is being insensitive in recovery and I have to tell him he's hurting me, does he really love me, shouldn't he know what to do? 10/02/2012 Is it codependent for the hurt spouse to manage their mate's recovery if they aren't feeling safe? If unfaithful spouse refuses to get help what should they do? 10/02/2012 How does a hurt spouse know when to let go, when her mate wont get on board? 10/02/2012 Is it possible for an unfaithful spouse to really be in love with their affair partner? 10/02/2012 We are 3 years from discovery and my mate is traveling out of state, is it wrong for me to suggest he go to a recovery meeting before leaving to give me peace of mind? 10/02/2012 Is it unreasonable to expect my mate to at least personally explore her issues with intimacy or is her answer that she's praying enough? 10/02/2012 Rick's Q & A Call on October 8 10/02/2012 Earlier in our recovery process i filed for divorce, we're now doing better than ever, I've put the divorce on hold, but should I cancel it? 9/10/2012 My mate won't tell me what's happened, is there anyway to help him tell me the story of what occured so i can move on? 9/10/2012 Rick's Q & A Call on September 24 9/10/2012 Road to Recovery, series 2, part 3 8/29/2012 Road to Recovery, series 2, part 2 8/29/2012 Road to Recovery, series 2, part 1 8/29/2012 Road to Recovery, series 1, part 3 8/29/2012 Road to Recovery, series 1, part 2 8/29/2012 Road to Recovery, series 1 part 1 8/29/2012 Rick's Q & A Call on September 10 8/27/2012 My husband and I are seperated while I work on my healing - he's obessessed with wanting to save the marriage, how do convince him I'm interested in reconciliation? 8/27/2012 We are 14 months into recovery and are doing better, but we're still not physically intimate and can't talk about the affair any suggestions for closeness and comfort? 8/23/2012 What can I do to feel comfortable when my wife traves since her affair was with her AP who is out of town? 8/23/2012 How much information is enough? My mate keeps asking questions, what can I do to help her move on? 8/20/2012 How shoud my husband respond if he runs into his AP? Is it wong to expect that he stand up for me and the kids? 8/20/2012 Rick's Q & A Call on August 27 8/14/2012 We are separated due to my husband's infidelty, is it unreasonable for me to request he get counseling before we reconcile? 8/14/2012 My husband has sexual abuse that we believe may have contributed to his infidelty, should he do individual therapy before we do couples counseling? 7/30/2012 How do you become remorseful when you really didn't want to give up the affair, I feel bad for the pain I caused, but don't feel bad for having done it 7/30/2012 My wife is still in contact with her AP, what should I do? 7/24/2012 Pages« first‹ previous…868788899091929394…next ›last »
