All Categories After a betrayal, your mind goes in 90 million directions all at once and you may not even know where to begin. Use the categories in the Recovery Library to discover what areas of recovery resonate with your struggle and find the specific guidance you need. Must Reads more less 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) The Problem with Forgiveness 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery The Power of Small Groups How to Survive Infidelity Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted 4912 Resources Type Title Posted Rick's Q & A Call on August 27 8/14/2012 We are separated due to my husband's infidelty, is it unreasonable for me to request he get counseling before we reconcile? 8/14/2012 My husband has sexual abuse that we believe may have contributed to his infidelty, should he do individual therapy before we do couples counseling? 7/30/2012 How do you become remorseful when you really didn't want to give up the affair, I feel bad for the pain I caused, but don't feel bad for having done it 7/30/2012 Rick's Q & A Call on July 30 7/24/2012 My wife is still in contact with her AP, what should I do? 7/24/2012 We're at the one year anniversary and I'm not handling it well, any suggestions before I make things worse? 7/24/2012 Rick's Q & A Call on July 23 7/09/2012 What boundaries can I set up to keep my family out of our recovery? 7/09/2012 It's been over a month since EMS and my mate has yet to commit to at least considering the marriage, what can I do? 7/09/2012 Repairing the Damage after Infidelity 7/03/2012 Interview of EMS Online Participants 7/01/2012 Handling Betrayal 6/27/2012 Rick's Q & A Call on July 9 6/25/2012 My husband's AP is pregnant with his child, I want to reconcile, but I don't want him to have contact with her 6/25/2012 My husband and I disagree over his feelings for his AP, I think he was in love which he denies, how do we arrive at seeing it the same way? 6/19/2012 I feel trapped between my daughter and my husband, she's angry about what his choices have cost her, what should I do? 6/19/2012 Pain Not Transformed Is Transmitted: Healing After An Affair 6/06/2012 Rick's Q & A Call on June 25 5/22/2012 Guide for testimonial 5/17/2012 I lied to my friends about my husband leading them to beleive he was abusive to justify my infidelty, how do I make amends and help heal those relationships? 5/16/2012 I turned my family against my husband during my affair, do you have any suggestions of what I can do to heal those relationships? 5/16/2012 My husband didn't give full disclosure 2 years ago at EMS and I just discoverd there was another affair, I'm back at ground zero, how can I heal from his deception? 5/16/2012 My mate's AP is still involved in our circle of friends, how do we inform our friends we no longer want to be included in activities involving the other woman? 5/16/2012 Rick's Q & A Call on May 21 5/16/2012 Financial Infidelity: 6 Tips to Fix It 5/11/2012 My husband is a sex addict, how can we develop and maintain a healthy sexual relationship? 5/08/2012 My wife says she still loves her AP is that normal and is she really comitted to the marriage? 5/08/2012 How long does it take for remiders to go away and for my mate's temptation to subside? 5/08/2012 Rick's Q & A Call on May 14 5/08/2012 How To Handle Pain: Healing After An Affair 4/26/2012 We attended the AR program two years ago and have been doing really well until last week when my wife discovered that I didn't give her full disclosure, any suggestions? 4/23/2012 Rick's Q & A call on May 7 4/23/2012 My mate has lapse behaviors and I'm having problems trusting him any suggestions? 4/16/2012 My husband is angry, mean and withdrawn since he got caught. Any book or music suggestions? 4/16/2012 Rick's Q & A call on April 23 4/16/2012 My husband has been dealing with a sexual addiction, over the past two years the frequency of our love making as declined, why is that? 4/06/2012 We feel we need to explain to our friends in our small group what's going on since he had an affair with one of the other couples and we're avoiding them, do you have any suggestions? 4/06/2012 Will EMS help us move forward or will it cause us to fall back into old destructive feelings? 4/06/2012 Why is my husband Jealous of me if he's the one who cheated? 4/06/2012 Rick's Q & A on April 16 4/06/2012 6 Steps To Confronting Your Mate About Betrayal 4/03/2012 Does the fact that I'm a sex addict automatically make me a co-sex-addict? 3/26/2012 It's been 4 months since d-day and my wife is beeing taunted by my AP which is making her angry with me, how should I respond? 3/26/2012 We're nine months into recovery and my mate has slipped and been inconsistent with SAA and therapy, should I tell our kids what's going on? 3/26/2012 Rick's Q & A on April 2 3/26/2012 Social Media, Emotional Affairs & Infidelity 3/22/2012 Rick's Q & A call on March 26 3/19/2012 If my husband has been unfaithful for the past 9 years can we change? Have I been married to a single man for the past 9 years and is there anything worth salvaging in our marriage? 3/19/2012 Is it okay to share my opinions with my mate regarding the root of their problem? 3/19/2012 Pages« first‹ previous…868788899091929394…next ›last »
