Safety in Recovery The hallmark of any healthy recovery is safety. Both spouses have to feel safe in order to rebuild a strong, new marriage from the ashes of the old one. Learn how to make your mate feel safe and why it is so important that you do. Must Reads more less Infidelity Counseling: How Effective Is It? Dealing with Infidelity: How to Get You Mate to Cooperate (Without Being Controlling) Social Shame: Understanding the Paralysis of it Why People Cheat: The Fog of Self-Deception (Part 1) Pimping Tenderness & Grooming Behaviors Bedside Forgiveness: When Death Coincides With Infidelity Does Time Heal All Wounds? Healing After An Affair How Could You? Part I: Why We Commit Betrayal With Infidelity How to Survive Infidelity The Problem with Forgiveness How Could You? Part IV - Doublespeak and Distorted Comparisons Why Couples Fail After an Affair | Part 1 - Not Knowing What Happened 31 Reasons to Stop an Affair: Part 1 Untransformed Pain will be Transmitted Healing After an Affair: How do I Address Unmanageability? Coping with Infidelity: The 2 Stages of Pain The Power of Small Groups Surviving Infidelity: What Do We Tell the Kids? 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Hurt Spouse Affair Recovery Timeline for Healing After Betrayal 20 Most Common Mistakes of the Unfaithful Spouse How Long Does It Take to Recover From An Affair? The Seven Mistakes Churches Make When Dealing With Infidelity Ending an Affair - Step One: Make the Decision Rebuilding Trust After An Affair Discovery: Part 1 - How to Handle Discovery Surviving Infidelity Part 1: What Do You Need to Know? Ending an Affair: Lock the Door Part 1 Surviving Infidelity: The #1 Challenge to Recovery Why Did My Spouse Cheat? A Crucial Question In Healing After An Affair 1069 Resources Type Title Posted Q&A Do I Have All the Information Needed? 12/08/2015 Q&A Is It Ever Okay To Express Anger? 12/01/2015 Q&A How Do We Handle His Working With the AP? 12/01/2015 Q&A Is This a Sign of Healthy Mistrust? 11/17/2015 Q&A Why Does He Want to Fix the Marriage While He is With His AP? 11/10/2015 Q&A What Do You Mean When You Have Us Say... ? 11/10/2015 Q&A How Do We Keep Our Children Safe If We Run Into My Wife's Affair Partner While At a School Function? 11/04/2015 Q&A My Spouse Is Not Taking Personal Responsibility and May Be a Sex Addict. I Feel Like Giving Up, Should I? 11/04/2015 What’s the Most Effective Role for Me? 10/27/2015 Q&A How Long Does My No-sex Agreement With My Unfaithful Wife Need to Last? 10/27/2015 Q&A How Do I Communicate the Importance of My Spouse's Recovery? 10/20/2015 Q&A What Consequences Should Follow Broken Boundaries? 10/20/2015 Q&A What Do I Do With the Pain? 10/06/2015 Q&A How Do I Deal With His Failure and My Detachment? 10/06/2015 Q&A How do I Transform my Pain? 9/22/2015 Q&A Who Can I Talk to? 9/22/2015 Q&A What About Emotional and Verbal Abuse in Recovery? 9/22/2015 Q&A How can I Feel Safe when my Mate's Affair was with their Ex? 9/17/2015 Q&A Is it Possible to Recover if your Spouse is Still Deceitful? 9/17/2015 Q&A What Boundaries should I Set Before my Mate Comes Home? 9/17/2015 Q&A Are these Ground Rules Sufficient to be Safe from the Affair Partner? 8/27/2015 Q&A Can I Tell the Affair Partner she's Not Loved? 8/25/2015 Q&A Is there any Hope for our Marriage? 8/18/2015 Q&A Do you Ever Recommend Separating? 8/18/2015 Q&A How can I Love her After what She's Done? 8/18/2015 Q&A Should we let the AP's Know that it's Over? 8/18/2015 Q&A At what Point do I Move on? 8/11/2015 Q&A What is he Addicted to? 8/11/2015 Q&A How do I Respond to Continual Lies? 8/11/2015 Q&A Will he Ever Get Over her? 8/04/2015 Q&A How can I get Past a Desire for Revenge? 8/04/2015 Q&A Can I Heal While Spouse is Active in an Affair? 8/04/2015 Q&A What Next? 7/31/2015 Q&A What Affects do Polygraphs have on Recovery? 7/31/2015 Q&A Should I Secretly Install Spyware on my Spouse's Phone? 7/31/2015 Q&A Is this what PTSD Looks Like? 7/28/2015 Q&A How do we Cope with the Ashley Madison Blackmail News? 7/28/2015 Q&A Any Thoughts for a Hopeless Situation? 7/20/2015 Q&A How Likely is my Mate to Cheat Again? 7/07/2015 Q&A How can I Pretend to be Happy When I'm Not? 7/07/2015 Q&A What do you Suggest I do Now? 7/07/2015 Q&A Does my Spouse Really Want to Save the Marriage? 6/26/2015 Q&A How Can I Encourage my Spouse to Get Help? 6/26/2015 Q&A How do I Respond to Ambivalence? 6/26/2015 Q&A Should I be Leading our Recovery? 6/23/2015 Q&A Is it Infidelity if we were Separated? 6/23/2015 Q&A Should I Start Over While I Still Can? 6/16/2015 Q&A What Boundaries are Needed to Keep my Family Safe? 6/09/2015 Q&A How Risky is a F.O.B.A.D.? 6/09/2015 Q&A How do I Deal with my Spouse's Ambivalence? 6/02/2015 Pages« first‹ previous…141516171819202122next ›last »
